Merrier you - merrier marriage
Somehow we people have a habit of complaining about our lives little too much. No wonder the wise people advise to list us the things we possess and make us feel proud about. This list if we read daily could instill a level of confidence in us and reduce our complaining nature, because unknowingly enough we possess far more things than those who don’t know even exist. Marriage is one such thing that if taken in positive spirit is the blessing one can have. But many people have complaining marriages all through their lives.
These people should view the plight of unmarried men and women who face the harsh realities of life all alone without the sympathy or empathy of anyone closer. But despite so many books, magazines, and TV shows shouting from rooftops about marriage counseling, not many people opt for it and those who opt are not much happy about the outcome. The divorce rates are also alarmingly high. This is the reason why a humane soul came out with the “Light her fire” or “light his fire” program, which is something more than marriage counseling.
This is Dr. Ellen Kreidman who has till date saved numerous marriages from the verge of break up and also has added flavor to the dull married lives. Her humorous speeches are famous all over the world that suggests couples to laugh hard and forget the worries in life. Also, her insightful advice in her program has an ice-breaking quality. The couples’ lives are not the same again and they learn to respect their differences in a subtle way that they are themselves happy doing it.